dumb fucking whores.

[sexynikki]

bitches on internet sharing real life shit some you bitches need to really get a fucking life. some sad ass hoz wtf is wrong with you people dam . yall dont have family and friends in real life get the fuck real dam.

[sexynikki]

some things i just dont tolerate slander beyond my clothing meaning sex etc..now no excuse to be made for a disrespectful man. a person that love you will not talk bad of you and discuss your personal sex llife and say very sicken shit about you. how can you say a person love you after they have totally disrespected you. love dont hurt.. and if that is love i hate for that mtf to hate ... so ladies stop making excuses for these sorry ass men that low rate you. and be a woman drop the fucking zero. not to mention be some same ones that sit have nerves to call someone illiterate stupid dumb or mental wtf are you beyond mental to accept that kinda abuse and still carry on a sane person wont accept all that get your fucking head check dumb hoz.

[sexynikki]

A love-hate relationship is a personal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and enmity. Sometimes the person may love the other person/object, but hate oneself for it. This relationship can, but does not have to, be of a romantic nature. It may occur when people have completely lost the intimacy within a loving relationship, yet still retain some passion for, or perhaps some commitment to, each other.

A related theme is "obligatory friendship", where usually one party feels indebted to another and forges a friendship but still holds a grudge over a particular past disappointment or set of disappointments, while the "creditor" in the relationship agrees to the nature of the relationship often for security reasons, but remains aware of the "debtor's" grudge and feels counter-indebted until the cause of the grudge is sufficiently overcome.

It can be argued that, due to the fact that the subjects love each other despite issues they have, a love hate relationship actually represents a stronger bond than a simple love relationship does. Also since a constant hatred is felt, any new issues which emerge are unlikely to put the relationship in jeopardy.

[sexynikki]

On a discussion list some time ago, someone asked, "Are you folks who believe in 'love the sinner but hate the sin' advocating treating a person differently because they are 'in sin'?"

That's a valid question. Most often we regard those to be "in sin" who sin differently than we do, forgetting that we are all "in sin," one way or another.

I used to wonder why gay people, in particular, objected so much to the "love the sinner but hate the sin" expression. I don't wonder any more -- not since being in receipt of a note which said, "I'm only saying this because I love you" when the content of the note made abundantly clear that the person didn't care enough to try to understand me. Too often we can use the phrase to cover up our own feelings of self-righteousness. If we really love someone, it will show without the use of such terminology

On the other hand, the phrase is an old one, and it is a valid description of how God relates to us. I believe the real meaning of "love the sinner and hate the sin" is a contrast to our usual way of dealing with things. It is quite "normal" for us to hate the sinner -- the one in whom we see our own sins manifested -- and love the sin, i.e. practice the same sin ourselves. That's what Pharisaism is all about. And unfortunately the expression "love the sinner and hate the sin" has been too often mouthed by those who practice quite the opposite.

To "love the sinner and hate the sin" means to be God-like. It means to love people irrespective of the sins that we may see in them. It means accepting them and loving them just as they are without thereby "loving" their sins and practicing them ourselves. This, of course, is only possible as we accept the love of God into our own lives and submit to His transformation of our hearts and lives.

I believe that the objection most gay people have to this terminology hinges on their idea that when we "love the sinner, hate the sin," we refuse to accept something intrinsic to their personality. The primary meaning of the term, though, means not to love the person without adopting their standards or lack of them in our own lives, i.e. without practicing the same sins.

The concept is very liberating, really. It allows us to leave the judging up to God while we practice the self-sacrificing love He demonstrated on the cross. It allows us to hold ourselves to a high moral standard without consigning to hell those who do not see things the way we do. It frees us from imposing our standards of morality on those around us, and, if adopted by those whose morality depends on theological hair-splitting, it can still make them loving and lovable Christians.

On the other hand, if we truly love the "sinner," we will want him/her to know the liberating freedom of knowing God as we do -- to experience the power of God to liberate us from the sins that do so easily beset us. However, urging them to give up their sins isn't usually effective to that end. Far more effective is to love the "sinner" as Christ loved and, by our own conduct and communication, model a better way. Even in words we can uplift the right and the good, and sin will appear in its true colors. However, if we do not model the love of Christ and give no evidence of His power in our lives, no amount of verbal haranguing will induce the "sinner" to give up his/her sin. And it will only drag us down further, for by beholding we become changed -- whether we behold Christ in His purity or the "sinner" in his sinfulness.

It also seems that we usually apply the "love the sinner/hate the sin" terminology to what we deem as "open sin," while we too easily pass over our less visible yet often more dangerous sins -- sins like pride and self-righteousness, for instance.

Yes, let us indeed love sinners -- and don't we all fit that category? -- and hate the sin in our own lives, including the "acceptable kind," that makes us poor representatives of the Christ we claim to serve.

[viloloco5]

Oh the irony of this thread.

[Jammajay]

Originally Posted by viloloco5

Oh the irony of this thread.

violoco5

[Jasminesmom]

Originally Posted by viloloco5

Oh the irony of this thread.

I merged her threads

[AMilliONAIRE]

Originally Posted by Jasminesmom

I merged her threads

[sexynikki]

ty venus i dont know how to merge it

Originally Posted by Jasminesmom

I merged her threads

[sexynikki]

got your irony bitch you better stick to wtf you was doing up on this site bitch...

Originally Posted by viloloco5

Oh the irony of this thread.